lessons in life...

We discovered something bad recently. It involved Boys. So when that happens, it's always hard to handle. That's the main reason it's bad. You never know if what you did was the right thing. Whether they will have an adverse reaction and start hating the world.

Well, I never believe that when bad things happen only bad things are obtained. There will always be one good thing that can be taken from every bad thing that happens. And that is the most important thing, the lesson.

If you can find a lesson, which is the easy part, and learn from it, this is harder, you would have benefited from the bad event. I always remember a quote that I've heard:

The fool does not learn form his mistakes.
The smart man learns form his own mistake.
The wisest learn form the mistakes of others.

So, I guess that you can learn from you own mistakes, at least you're on the right track. Don't waste your learning opportunities.